Discussion I have a confession.

You all are the best. I think I know what I’m going to do. Thanks

 

Wow, MCs problem in real life..

 

Thanks for the encouraging words

I wouldn’t go that far. It was a weird moment

 

Fun fact, some girls would even push their guys into that situation because it's a bit funny to see them act all awkward xD

Though, you need an eye bleach, why not ask your girl to try a white bikini, too?

 

Why don't you talk over it with your girlfriend? Since as I understand she is the reason why you are feeling guilty

 

I agree, this isn't "disgusting" this is an opportunity to deepen your relationship, get her in a white bikini and pull out the super soaker!!

 

Jokes aside, just don't go to that place anymore.
It was fine tho (she did gave you consent, and it was clearly included as offer with the purchase), but I understand your viewpoint, your reluctance, and your feeling of guilt.

 

Why in the hell would you ever feel bad? Do you feel bad for the girls (and guys) that willingly, not with their back against the wall choose to make porn, be prostitutes, and strippers? Is it weird that that's her job? Ya, as a male and a dad I do find that distasteful.

I've never been to anything like that, but if I went and was offered, why would I feel bad? She literally gave you the option to do it knowing what it entailed.

Also, most decent people in a relationship either straight up avoid places like that, or they tell their partner they frequent them/went to one. NOT doing that would be something to be guilty of.

The only reason you should feel guilty is that you didn't thank the lady for letting you spray fluid at her.

 

There's a whole lotta ways to discern those words.

 

Aye, thanks for catching onto my lame dad jokes, lol.

 

We do know how to spot our own, after all.

 

If you have a girlfriend then don't play with another girl. That is would I like to say but, if I were in your shoes I'll probably do the same.

 

Maybe try make your girlfriend do similar thing that you'd clear up the previous experience with a better one?

Even as a straight girl, my eyes would be glued to cleavages and buttcracks if chances allow me. Who doesn't appreciate nice looking boingboings
i guess that's why people mistook me for a lesbian...

 

Hmm~ Tbh, this is a really subjective(?) matter. And should be discussed if at all with your girlfriend.

As you can see from the responses, the opinions on this differs. Like, some girls would hate it if their person would do what you did, and others would think it's nothing. Heck, some allow their husbands to go to strip clubs and think nothing of it.

Of course, if you want my personal opinion, if I was your gf I would totally appreciate it that you felt guilty about it (as you can see, most men will just have felt it was nothing and go there a lot guilt-free ) , and if you were honest with me. And then, now that we cleared that up, I would tell you to just not go back there again. The fact that you felt guilty should dictate what you should do next no?

Now about telling her about it, that depends. As I said, for me, I would appreciate you telling me about it. But I'm sure some people won't. So you, as the person who should know her the most, should decide for yourself about it according to what you know about her. Okay? Goodluck

 

it sounds alright because you feel guilty about it idk
maybe confess about it to your partner

 

She offered and presumably knows what she is doing and is getting paid well, so its probably fine on her end. Don't go back there if you regret it tho, cuz then its not fine on your end.

I personally would hate both sides of that situation with a passion. So i wouldn't go there or work there.

I hate that situation. Its too personal right now.

 

Loooool
Bruh you act like you have no female friends. Just take the jest lmao at that situations you should just let loose and go with the flow although you should still need serious awareness of where you are and who's your company are. Bro small playful jest is fine, explicit sexual innuendo however what you should avoid.
Relax you done nothing wrong, it's called when in rome do as Roman's. You don't play kisses, groping, or make explicit sexual comments right ? Then no you're absolutely fine. Just ask your gf opinion of what she thinks of that kinds of shops and avoid it if she in fact not too fond of them. That'd be commitment you'd need to keep unless you don't think your gf deserves that concessions from you.

 

As I said in my first post about my circumstances. It’s still the same. But I should add on. I’m from a tropical island. So seeing women in bikinis all day long is not a big thing. When you add on everything I said before. I never thought it was that bad. I just thought of it as a preference. I never degrade or humiliate the girls. I was always polite and never hit on them. As I said in my first post. I hardly ever get coffee. So I can’t even recall seeing the same girl twice. All I wanted was a coffee. I just prefer a girl serve it to me. Hopefully a pretty one, but anyway.
This incident has shown me that I was too naive. I thought it was innocent while naughty bit of fun. I get a coffee I hate, but by a beautiful women. It helps to swallow the drink when a beautiful girl offers you one. But this Wet T shirt idea. Went to far. I don’t think I can do it anymore. I think I’ll just power through my drives and workday. I just have to nap more often. Even thou it pains my back doing it. I just hate wasting time. I just want to be home.
I’m not going to tell my girl. I like to think I’m above average in looks. Especially since I’m an Island boy (exotic) in the middle of a predominantly white community. Than add on. I’m pretty built and have an alright face. My girl is a little self conscious about herself. Even thou I tell her everyday how beautiful she is. She will definitely blow up. I’ve decided not to go there ever again. Which is not a big deal because as I said I hardly ever get a coffee. Even if I should need one. I’ll try to go to Starbucks instead.
Thanks for all the advice everyone

 

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op idk why ur going gaga over petty shit, if you’ve been exposed to girls I’m bikinis all ur life as u put it, this really shouldn’t be getting you a weird virgin boner.
In the first place why go lmfao. Esp when u have a significant other lol
Why bother even posting it here, if you are so stressed out talk to ur gf about it and share ur guilt. The end

 

I’ll think about it